Your daughter dating loser
There is nothing you can do only do your best to teach your kids while they are young to be decent human beings, but if they choose to not to live a good life after they are adults, there is nothing you can do but let them go and find out the hard way.
It is almost impossible when you have the other parent working against you to do anything postive with your kids.
I know I am better off letting her leave and live with him and then he can see what it is like to live under her selfishness and her constant demands to look after her every need, even before anyone knows what it is and she can learn for herself what it is really like to live with her father again.
After 5 years she must forget what he was like to live with or believes him that he isn't like that any more.
My only advice is the same I have heard---be patient--be supportive--just be there and let her know that you love her.
Eventually he will break her heart and she will need you. My daughter is now thinking of moving in with her father who is a brainwasher and abuser and also has a very short fuse.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
You can always try a family intervention of sorts and get the family together and see what you can do to help her.Now he has moved closer to her school to get her to live with him and is telling her that if she moves in with him he can give her ALL the child support money I am getting to look after her NEEDS.