Steve harvey dating book
You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you're independent (which means, to him, that you're not going to be in his pockets)-but if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.” ― Steve Harvey, “Nothing on this planet can compare with a woman’s love—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. If you are her man, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you’ve acted out, no matter what crazy thing you’ve done, no matter the time or demand.
That’s a woman’s love—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance....
It tells him that what you have- your benefits- are special, and that you need time to get to know him and his ways to decide if he DESERVES them.
The man who is willing to put in the time and meet the requirments is the one you want to stick around, because tthat guy is making a conscious decision that he, too, has no interest in playing games and will do what it takes to not only stay on the job, but also get promoted and be the proud beneficiary of your benefits.
This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women.” ― Steve Harvey, “Now, revealing that you're a keeper is no guarantee that this guy won't just walk away.
Some men really are just sport fishing and have no intention of doing anything more than throwing back the women they bed.
Know that if this man isn't looking for a serious relationship, you're not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate.Every word you say, every move you make, every signal you give to a man will help him determine whether he should try to play you, be straight with you, or move on to the next woman to do a little more sport fishing.” ― Steve Harvey, “I realized right then and there, in that hallway, that I wanted no other...