Sleeping with someone before dating them
cool.)You could also just be straightforward as F and tell them, "Yo, I'm not sleeping with you unless we are exclusive," and then if they say no, you can accept it.
Great, have the exclusivity talk before having the sex.But how long should you wait before sleeping with someone? (Which, of course, is not the end goal of life.)As a basic-adjacent prudish type, I usually reserve date three for "make out in a location that's not the street for the first time." But as an aspiring boss woman who wants to be more comfortable with her sexuality, I admire women who sleep with a hot man on a first date if they want to.