The guy isn't an a~hole as some of the women on this thread have decided to label him.He is simply excercising his right to see what's out there.It will not go away because you do not talk about it.In fact it can bite you in the a ss big time, when he gives you the gift that keeps on giving such as an STD.Communication includes things like consistency, as well as being able to understand what each person is saying, directly and indirectly.Here's how we do it over here:puke your food up until you have a BMI no greater than 18see a plastic surgeonget oversize breast implantsnow you should look like an anorexic with balloonsget lip injections until you look like daisy duckinvest in: acrylic nails, hair extensions, lash extensionsget a job as a stripper to pay off your surgery loans (or sleep with the surgeon)Now you are ready to date. Bring your own money on every date, even if it's just for coffee.If you can bury this past (where he didnt officially cheat on you) then maybe you can have a good relationship. Women here date 5 guys at the same time and bullshit you forever and try to keep you as a stupid idiot on the hook. So in reality you didn't get mad, you just became surprised (I guess hurt and humiliated means surprised in Europe).
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...In fact, in many University exchange programs (Erasmus can be a reference), it is said that the only good thing about them (they are a waste of academic time) are the girls that come from other countries with a view to have fun, and make the lives of many a lot more "colourful".