Jls who are they dating
(In light of the above, I don’t feel welcome at the in-laws’ place anymore, and they do not have a room large enough to accommodate us).My MIL saw this post, called my hubby and freaked out.Then they had the nerve to confide to my mom that they felt they were unwanted and an inconvenience! I have made myself unavailable when they call or Skype. I explained our situation (I’m pregnant again and working very hard to get the required hours at work so I can collect Employment Insurance and be off with my kids for 12 months) and since I am due in March I did not see us making the trip before baby two arrives.Plus, it would depend on finances since we would have to stay in a hotel.
At the beginning of November 2011 I called my MIL to get the contact info for her side of the family so they could be invited to the shower. I was going to have a shower for you for my side.’ I was upset as I then had to call my aunt and tell her it would only be our side attending, but let it slide.Obviously, this was a devastating diagnosis and it took me a while to adjust.While I was processing this information, we told immediate family — our parents, siblings and siblings’ spouses — and requested that they not share this information.) – I am never available to talk to them (I wonder why! She called the next morning wanting to Skype and he let her!!! I know what I have to say and how I will say it will result in her crying. You gave birth, found out your daughter not only has Down’s Syndrome but also a heart problem that would require surgery and could potentially be fatal, and then got pregnant again when your baby was only nine months old and still faced major surgery and a scary uphill battle to regain her health and strength.
) – they have to ask for photos of A – all the “promises” went out the window – it broke her heart to see we would be staying in a hotel posted to FB – they will not infringe on our lifestyle if they come to visit, they will stay in a hotel and call for an appointment – she thinks we don’t want her in A’s life – she is done crying her eyes out over this – and while she will always love us, right now she doesn’t like us very much. I have discussed with my hubby what has upset me and that I think it needs to be dealt with and she needs to be told her behavior is inappropriate and will not be tolerated. I can only imagine how incredibly stressful this time has been — how your hormones are affecting already mixed emotions on multiple levels.
Instead of a return apology, I got, “That’s ok dear, we still love you.” Needless to say, that only upset me more!!! The in-laws came for a visit over the day A had her heart surgery.