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By the time he was thirty he found himself with a busy job, a big mortgage, two kids and a wife who was mentally unravelling.She had an affair, admitted it, promised to never do it again … Worst of all, she threatened to take sole custody of the kids if he ever tried to divorce her.Dating after divorce is difficult and things get complicated with the presence of children.This complication is so big that at times it discourages people to think about dating again.By the time we met, EJ was financially strapped, his relationship with his kids was in trouble, and he doubted he could trust a woman ever again.
It gets hard for the children to understand that the dating rule are different for children and for adult. Dating instruction: Do not introduce the person whom you are dating with to your children until your relationship is serious and you are committed to the person.
This happens because children think that now with a new person coming in their life, they will have to readjust their life.
The feeling of loss of privacy, abandonment and a new person sharing space in the house gets too big for the children to handle and brings out negativity in form of anger.
The effects of dating on children post divorce differs among children.
The effects depend upon the developmental stage of the child.He took on the work of trying to solve issues that were never his to begin with.