Dating a young bald guy


04-Sep-2020 18:03

My hope is those guys are guys who relied on their own hair and looks too much and the successful bald guys are too busy living than writing on some hairloss forum.

Also I do keep myself busy but more with one big activity; I'm being trained as a skydiver, already have a basic license, and am being trained to take people on tandem jumps, once I get my intermediates I'll be one of the youngest in my state so I do have that going for me.

I mean I'm not even 20 yet, and if I knew I could still be in something serious or even get married in my 20's to a girl I was very attracted to body and mind I wouldn't give two craps about no hair. then it will affect your ego and your self-esteem and you will send out the signal 'i do not value myself that highly'. That will boost your attractiveness in the eyes of girls who want someone like that. A shortcut that everyone knows about is an absolute oxymoron. A good friend [female] once told me that all the plans and all the lists and all the dreaming that girls do about their future guy and what they would do in those situations tends to go completely out the window the moment they fall in love [or begin to fall in love]. I was kinda hoping for that, I know it's something that on paper isn't likely a preference but there are girls I've found attractive who if you tried to describe them I might say 'eh they may be OK' but the whole package I found uniquely attractive even physically, hell one of then was a girl who shaved the side of her head!

Please be honest even if it's not what I want to hear, I appreciate honesty. A good friend [female] once told me that all the plans and all the lists and all the dreaming that girls do about their future guy and what they would do in those situations tends to go completely out the window the moment they fall in love [or begin to fall in love]. __________________ Democracy, the playground of the narcissist. And I seen a picture with full hair and didn't think she looked as good (maybe now it's a subconscious head shaved thing haha) and honestly I was very worried about how old I looked but most everyone tells me they thought I was 21-22 when they find out my real age.

I'm a 19 year old guy who suffers from a condition call TE, it causes heavy scalp thinning and while most cases are temporary mine became permanent, so with no treatment I opted to shave it to the skin.

It's a mixed bag on me, head shape and my face work very well for it, but I'm a skinnier guy, I'm toned but not much mass, and I have a paler skin that just does not tan (same doc who diagnosed me with the condition told me about my skin being a 'milder ' type) honestly to me it was just hair, I wasn't like some young guys who think hairstyle defines them or are justin bieber wannabes.

My step cousins were all mostly bald by their senior year in high school and I can tell you they had no trouble what so ever landing a girlfriend. On of my step cousins was a football player, the other in the drama club and did a lot of musicals and dancing routines at school and had girls crawling all over them at all times.

If a girl doesn't want to date you just because you are bald or balding then that is not the girl for you.

It's just that I've never had a legitimate girlfriend and seeing guys who say they were magnets say they now get nothing with no hair seems to put me in a bad place for the future.And I admit looks do matter, you have to find your partner more attractive than the norm (and we do all have different preferences but there are some generally attractive/unattractive qualities, I'm worried the baldness is one of them this young) I have decent standards and I understand and respect girls needing to be physically attracted to their partner too.